Written by: Pana •
June 26, 2009
If your heart isn’t in it, then you should get off the emotional roller coaster. If your heart is in it, pour out your feelings to the one you love before it’s too late. Crying over spilt milk, taking things too personally, turning your back on potential romance or commitment or drowning sorrows may be excuses for avoiding a confrontation with the stranger in the mirror. Loneliness born of fear or damaged self-esteem may lay hidden beneath a calm exterior. Learn to depend upon yourself for fulfillment, attention, interest and consideration. The satisfaction gleaned from others’ approval is temporary and superficial. Work toward wholeness and happiness by being willing to expand your own expectations. Embrace the commitment and sacrifice necessary to cross your own emotional boundaries.
Thoughts?
I guess there is no better way of saying it. I think that some people let the small things come between them and the people that love them becuase they’re not fully committed to the relationship. Some men may cheat and that can be really bad.There are other men that don’t have the balls to.(not that they dont want to). Either way the situation is bad. In the end its easy to sense when a person’s heart isn’t fully engaged into you. It just takes a lot of courage to admit it.
Preach….my fave. part “Learn to depend upon yourself for fulfillment, attention, interest and consideration. “
Thank you both for your thoughts I love when I can understand different points especially when they are opposites. Thanks for commenting.
@ Coogie Cruz I hope you read this I have been slippin on my blog and the blogs that I frequent. I will visit you today lol. Thanks for the love and I have some info on the other thing as well.
Nice!! The worst mistake a person can make is trying to find happiness in someone else. Its always nice to open your heart to true love but its even more important to know when to put up walls to protect it from those who dont have your best interest at heart…