Written by: Pana •
March 24, 2009
I have been doing a lot of thinking….My co – worker said you can lead a horse to water……and I finished.. but you can’t make them drink !!!! True Story. This will be a short blog because I have another blog in the works, plus an interview to conduct.
Sometimes you can show someone that they are doing something you do not like, and they just PRETEND they don’t know what the fuck you are talking about! So here is a chance to air them out! If I keep calling you and you don’t respond and it takes a week for you to hit me back don’t get mad when I don’t answer when you feel like calling me GROW UP !!! If I tell you something you do bothers me and I feel it is disrespectful and you continue to do it don’t get mad when I bark on your ass!!! Sometimes…no MOST of the time I talk too damn much so I know I led your ass to the water by telling you it bothers me or do unto others….Now when you get to the water your ass act like you not thirsty and shit !! LMAO. Moving right along…This girl I use to be cool with always got a ad lib …..Chill the fuck out Young Jeezy (that’s right haha) **dead**.
I said I got this bag or this shirt because I liked it , Now you want to talk about why you didn’t get it. Bitch I don’t care I called you…if you wanted to hate you should called me smh!!! ( that is the undercover hater in your group the one that always says MUST be nice when your dude does something nice for you or you get something expensive ..Yes Bitch it is nice!!) Like you have a friend try to help her and put her on to shit, you trying to fix your credit you tell her what to do so he can get right. This beeyouch goes and starts talking behind your back to some beeyouches that not trying to change her life, but that’s who she wants to deal with smh. Then some people have the nerve to wonder why they are stuck and can’t seem to grow. I have NEVER been scared to go left. That makes me, me. I would say unique but doesn’t everyone swear they are different??? lol. I said to my friends in Aug that I’m making some changes and I am about positive movements…I GUESS some bitches didn’t get the memo so they got left behind. Last but not least….Don’t call me over a thank you , do what you do from the heart, I don’t expect a thank you for nothing I do for you. I do expect appreciation. And if your simple ass can call me about a thank you and I was calling you for 3 months just to see how you are doing and you couldn’t answer (I didn’t trip) don’t get mad when I say your ass is being petty because you are PETTY !!!! Real friends know their friends HEART !! We are all going thru shit get over it!! I do not define family by blood. Some people need to learn the definition of a relationship it goes both ways, Right now I am leading by example , cutting negativity and any RELATIONSHIP that I am in that is one-sided will be tossed like yesterday’s trash. Now I must admit now in some cases I could have been a better friend/sister/daughter/or partner it’s never too late too change. Everything is equal. Not tit for tat. Miss me with that shit! I AM…..LEADING by example getting my shit together I know what I have to offer and what I will offer once they let me in!!! I’m wearing all white with skips on (can’t tell me nothing) still fly. These are the same people that will one day realize everyday you miss you can’t get back, life goes on. I know I rather have support from people that Love Me ..then face the world alone!! Remember people aren’t mind readers they can’t guess what’s going on in your life don’t shut people out or mistreat them………sometimes you can’t get right back!!!! Rich or poor a TRUE FRIEND has your back. As long as you have that person or people it will be OK. I like I said you can lead a horse to water but ………….
DISCLAIMER : 4 Luisa I typed this up this is a rant no editing involved. lol I love you !!! We will start with the next one (wink)
Thoughts?
***P.S. This is MY BLOG I say what I want !!!***
I almost couldn’t find the comment link….
Most people wont drink the water or take a chance. but they swear they’re “hustling”. Most don’t follow what they really want to do. Most do what the rest of the pack does.
It takes Courage to be different because naturally human beings are built to do things as a group. That is why the LEADER always stands out and the leader is usually ONE.
I would say you have courage to be different and you show a lot of leadership. keep living your dreams and leading us to ours Ms. Pana… UNO.
You’re too much!!!! But I have to admit that its the reason why I love you. Its hard to have good friendships, especially when you’re already an adult and know what you like and dislike. No twenty-somthing year old should deal with this kind of high school shit. At the end of the day we must also come across these kind of people so that we can learn to distinguish good from bad, nice and ugly etc. Anyway remember that people will always hate one way or another.
Luisa
PS Dont worry Miss Thing ur still cool. lmao
Joe I think that was the nicest thing you ever said to me !!1 Thank you so much, I guess sometimes you really do not know people real opinion of you.
Cute Stizzy Cute !!! lol
@ Luisa So true !!! It’s really sad. Why are some people very thirsty ?? SMH…some people are made to be hated on because they can handle it. That shit was wack and sometimes you have to let people know how wack they are ,keep it moving, and then put them on permanet ignore. lol Love ya too.