What are your terms hmmm better yet requirements/deal breakers for moving into a sexual relationship. I do mean casual sex I am talking about taking your relationship to another level. Fellas I want to know at what point do you decide to pursue the woman in a sexual manner ? What are you willing to  do or standards you set in order to keep a sexual relationship? Are you leasing with the intent to buy ?

Ladies what are your requirements ? Do you just go off chemistry ?  The purpose of dating is to establish if the person is the one, so what are your requirements as to how a person is supposed to act while courting and no formal “Title” is involved ? Do you always adhere to these requirements or are there exceptions to the rule ?

Although I am not a believer on going dutch especially if we are on a date, (please do not confuse that with paying if we were in a relationship or just friends) by no means am I splitting a check with a man who asked me out. Idc  this is my moral or you can call it my opinion but I am not changing my mind on that! You can do what you want that is on you. If I want to split the tab then I can go out with my girlfriends or take myself out to eat.

This brings me to another point if someone wants to visit them out-of-town. (This can be tricky whoever asks should be responsible for payment depends on situation) but let’s say you want to visit him and you fly,drive,or take train. I feel he should reimburse you or at least pay half. Let’s not go there if you decide to sleep with him he better be paying for your expenses or you could have kept your ass home in your house I found some adult company (male) in your state. One thing I cannot stand is a cheap or frugal man who is always talking about he got it and do not have shit but is on your phone all day asking you to sit in his house GTFOH dude I have a home please understand that I am a grown woman not 16. I have noticed men after taking you on a couple of dates expecting sex like a meal constitutes my obligation to sleep with you boy bye.

To be honest it is very simple you want to spend time cool, but keep in mind courting is expensive meals, dates, trips what have you cost money. So if we are not sleeping together and/or just met do not try to bring me to your house I am not chilling in your crib, I do not want to hear about how broke you are, then you are on phone talking about buying a new car and trying to fuck If I want that there is someone I can call without headaches and lies etc if that was the case. I just want men and women to be realistic as far as what they are looking for if they are in the in between stages with the opposite sex. It is better to say or negotiate what you want in the beginning as oppose to wasting your time and mad (at yourself) because you are dealing with a stupid ass individual. I’m just saying you get what you negotiate that’s all I know.

Ciao be bella,

Pana