Friends with benefits. We’ve all had them, and some think it’s the perfect scenario:

You’re out with your girlfriends having a blast, and 2AM rolls around. You’ve had a few cocktails, and you wouldn’t mind making out with a boy so you whip out your cell and shoot a text to your special friend.

Minutes might go by before you hear back. You start wondering if your FWB has moved on to another FWB, and now you’re bummed because you were counting on him!

But wait, your cell phone beeps…and it’s him!

You hug your girls goodbye and haul ass to his place. You enjoy a night of no strings attached whateva. When you’re through you kiss him on the cheek and you’re off—til’ next time!

Many think this type of relationship is ideal, but in most situations, it seems to lead to trouble. Women and men are hardwired differently, so while I think a man can easily walk away from casual sex, a woman ends up thinking about it the next day…and the day after! Plus, one person always ends up getting more attached. When it comes to this kind of relationship, I always advise my girls to proceed with caution. I’ve always been the type to date like one guy at a time but sometimes I wonder how it would be….No stress, not worrying about where he is what he is doing, if you hear something it’s not your problem you do not feel jerked around or played. You know where you stand. Do get me wrong I’m not innocent, I didn’t fall in love with every dude I dealt with. I don’t think this is for me, but the again I wonder how it would be hummm………

What do you think? Thumbs up or down for the FWB relationship?